Don’t Know Where To Find Mr/Mrs Right?
Are you fed up of having bad dates? You know those horrible ones where, perhaps, you meet them online and they seem great BUT when you actually meet them in person they are just not what you expected and you have to be ‘polite’ and continue the date for another 2-3 hours? Or perhaps you just aren’t having any dates at the minute because you are soo busy with work or you just don’t know where to meet potential partners?
I personally have endured all those negative experiences above. This is what lead to the creation of this website. I am here to help you with these problems, avoiding those bad dates and helping you find a great match.
Let’s start with the most important question – Where can I meet a good woman? or Where can I meet a good man?
At Work
You may have many colleagues to choose from at your work place. The work place is great for
a few reasons. You spend a lot of time with the person so you can really get to know them and because you work with them it is a comfortable setting and environment.
Of course most work places do not have a good selection of potential mates to choose from AND you have to deal with office gossip. For men we don’t really care about gossip but the girl will and it WILL affect her decision as to whether or not she wants to date with you. If for some reason it doesn’t work out then the office can become quite uncomfortable for everybody.
Clubs/bars
NO. Whilst it is very to easy to approach people in a club, because it is a social environment, most of the people there are not really in relationship mode nor relationship worthy. They just want to party and have fun. If that is your cup of tea, that’s cool, this is the best place for you to go. But I know most of you are looking for something a bit more fulfilling. I know this maybe a generalisation but most of the people going to clubs don’t really have a lot else going on in their lives apart from getting drunk. For me drunk girls are so unattractive.
In Public
Can you just walk up to a person you find attractive in public and start a conversation? If you are like the majority of the people I imagine you find it very difficult. These has the great advantage of you being able to see the person and choosing whoever you want! Of course there is a lot of negative emotions and fear built up inside that prevents you going up to anyone. If you can overcome this fear then this is one of the better ways of meeting someone.
The negatives from this is that it can also be equally awkward for the person who you want to speak to and you have no idea if they are married, in a relationship, open to a relationship etc..
Through Friends
This method is great! Your friend believes you might make a good match with someone they know and there is a good chance they are right. Your friends want to see you happy after all. The only problem with this strategy is that you may not have any friends who know someone to set you up with. If you did…you would probably not be on this page right now. 🙂
Online Dating
In my opinion there are only 2 advantages to online dating. The first is that there is literally thousands of people doing it. So that’s thousands of people who you know are single (well they should be) and that are open to dating. The second thing is that it’s easy. You can send the message at any time of day, you don’t have to leave your home and you don’t have to worry so much about being rejected (like in public settings).
There are of course MAJOR drawbacks. All you see is a picture and some text on the screen. When you meet them I can almost guarantee that 95% of the time they are much worse than what you expected from talking to them online. Inside our head we fill out the blank spaces about how this person will walk, talk, dress, their personality, voice etc. etc. I had many online dates. Most of them started with disappointment. It was also getting expensive going on so many dates.
Speed Dating
Speed dating eliminates some of the problems of the other methods
- it is a comfortable environment so you don’t need to worry or be afraid of rejection like in public
- you get a much better idea of what the person is like than online dating
- the people are of higher quality than at clubs
- no need to worry about office gossip. In fact it will give you something interesting to talk about at work!
- instead of paying for 10 separate dates which could cost at least 5000 baht you pay for just one date
- you are not waiting on friends or Mr/Mrs Right to walk into your life. You are being proactive!
Of course speed dating has it’s drawbacks. It is impossible to predict that any of the 10 people there for you are a perfect match. I have tried to help this problem for you by offering you a guarantee that if there is no one you would like to meet again at one of ThaiSpeedDating events you can come to the next one FREE of charge.